Friday, September 30, 2011

Minutes - Meeting 9/30/11


  • Money allocated to the Pitzer Feminist Coalition on Wednesday at 10am. 
    • Action to give $50 approved
  • Speakers for National Coming Out Day (next Friday, 10/7)
    • Need 2 students, a faculty member, and a person with queer parents
    • OID (or just Angelica) will be helping recruit
    • Picture with "Gay? Fine by me!" shirts on Tues. 10/11 near Hixon Court
  • Counted PRISM in the GLSEN Census
  • Tuesday Talks begin 10/4 at the QRC
  • Last Ally Training was today, went well
  • Thought questions (taken from the idea list below)
    • What do people think of queer portrayal in pop media?
    • Polyamory - opinions?
    • What do you do if you like someone but aren't sure about how they feel?

Meeting Ideas

Ideas for what to do/talk about at future PRISM meetings:

  • A lot of PRISM members are involved in ballroom dance. Reverse-gender ballroom time? (Some sort of casual social...?)
  • Homophobia in academia
  • The role/place of allies in the queer community
  • Biphobia (Are some groups within the LGBTQQIAA community more queer than others? If not, how to combat this (mis)conception?)
  • Media portrayal of all/part of the queer community: how are we all lumped together? Distanced from mainstream/heteronormative?
  • Relationship between feminist movements and the queer community
  • Bi- and trans- phobia in the queer community
  • Being an ally to other minority groups (race, class...)
  • More serious discussions!
  • Personal stories to share (especially queer ones, if people need to talk about something)
  • Life expectations
  • Body image
  • Secularism
  • Sex stuff
  • Polyamory
  • What if you're into someone and you aren't sure they'd be okay with it? (How do you even find out?)
  • Bonding/acceptance activities like "Crossing the Line"
  • Actually creating change on campus
  • More philosophical discussions
  • Socialization maybe?
  • What is the normal response of sports teams (CMS teams, specifically) to gay/lesbian/bi/transgendered/etc. individuals? Is it generally positive or negative?
  • How the male -> female sexual assault stereotype affects queer people ("I think the Survivors support group at the HEO describes itself as a group for 'women who have been victims of sexual assault' ")
  • Walking down the the village for a meeting
Non-PRISM related topics/games
  • Teen Wolf
  • Lady Gaga :)
  • "Just check Towleroad for a topic or Joe.My.God"
  • Can you tell me why kids love the taste of cinnamon toast crunch?
  • You have someone sit with their back to the whiteboard, and someone writes a word on the board behind the person's head. Everyone can give one-word clues until the person guesses their word.
  • Improv game "Bang!" 
  • More telephone pictionary!

Friday, September 23, 2011

Minutes - Meeting 9/23/11


  • Meeting adjourned at 5:36pm
  • Introductions
  • Announcements:
    • Pitzer Feminist Coalition presenting women talking about bulimia on Oct. 7th
      • Asking for $200 from PRISM
      • We decided to ask for more information (who else has been asked for money, what is their budget, etc.) before responding
      • Same thing as what Chance was mentioning last week (he had it incorrect)
    • Leonard Fund cannot support all of PRISM + faculty dinners
      • Dean Jakes will fund them from other sources 
      • Students can only attend one dinner - look out for an email from Cameron
      • Previously allocated $50 from PRISM can be retracted
    • National Coming Out Day (Oct. 11)
      • We will have a professional photographer on the Tuesday (photo in Hixon Court)
      • Panel will be smaller this year than before - just a few students, few faculty/staff, maybe student with queer parents
      • If you know anyone who would like to talk on the panel, inform Cameron/David
    • Middle School Dance tonight from 10pm - 1am at Dom's Lounge (walk down together?)
    • Respond for Gay Days at Disneyland tomorrow!
    • On Sunday, Disney themed drag queens at The Fox Theater on Garey Ave. in Pomona
      • 18+ only, $5 for people under 21, otherwise free. Bring your ID.
  • Location change for next meeting: Big balcony reserved for Friday (9/30)
  • Appointed a new treasurer - Lauren Shull
  • Brainstormed ideas for things to do/talk about at future PRISM meetings (feel free to comment on here if you have any more!)
  • Telephone Pictionary!! :)

Minutes - Meeting 9/16/11


  • Adjourned at 5:43pm
  • Introductions
  • Announcements:
    • Pitzer equivalent of PRISM wants funds to help restart (More information from Chance)
    • "Scenes Unseen" being performed through the QRC: want money from PRISM
      • Asking for $400
      • Since our barbecue will be about $400, and we only have $800 for the year, motion to give $50 to the QRC for the event
      • Motion passed.
    • Dinner with faculty through Leonard Fund: 7 faculty/staff members already interested
      • Expect an email with names to sign up for
    • Need more female mentors for QQAMP
      • Contact Jonathan or Kyle
    • First Ally Training today, 16 people showed up
    • DADT will be repealed on Tuesday!
  • Thought question: How can we get the public on the same level as the LGBTQQIAA (did I forget any??) community?

Minutes - Meeting 9/9/11


  • Adjourned at 5:40 PM
  • Introductions
  • Announcements:
    • Ally Training posters, meet up at 7pm Monday (Cameron will send out an email)
    • Ally Training will begin next week on Friday. Lasts for 3 weeks, Fridays 12-1pm. 
    • Using Leonard Fund to have dinner with faculty, etc. involved in PRISM
      • PRISM motions to pay for the extra costs
      • Voted, motion passed.
    • Coming Out Day - Oct. 11
  • Ground rules of PRISM
    • Rule #1 (Don't be a jerk).
  • Thought question: What do you think of allying in our community? What should they do? What should we do?

Minutes - Meeting 9/2/11


  • Adjourned at 5:40
  • Introductions
  • Events that PRISM hosts: 
    • Ally training - Begins two Fridays from now, lasts for 3 weeks
    • Oct 11 - National Coming Out Day
    • Nov. National Transgender Remembrance Day
    • Day of Silence Barbecue
  • Announcements:
    • Need people to create posters, help with posters for Ally Training
    • What to do for Nat'l Coming Out Day: Take a picture of everyone with "Gay? Fine by me!" shirts, paint our wall
    • QQAMP and QRC open house on 8/15
    • Oct. 1 - Gay Days at Disneyland